Throughout the course of your life, you will meet lots of people, will date some of them, and will only build long-term relationship with a few. That is why breakups are a common part of our life. However, going through a break up is always painful no matter how experienced you might be.
For many people, break up is a new thing for them. That is why they end up making horrible mistakes after their break up which set them back. Here are some of the biggest mistakes you should avoid making after a break up. You can also read these as do’s and don’ts with your ex girlfriend.
Don’t Follow Them on Social Media
Right after your break up with someone, you should immediately unfriend them on Facebook, mute them on Twitter, and unfollow them on Instagram. You should also untag them fromany of your social media posts, and should never visit their account or pageright after your break up.
In fact, if possible, you should stop using social media completely for some weeks following your breakup. Never be curious about the life of your ex without you, and focus on your life without them.
Don’t Ask Anyone About Them
Right after a break up, you should focus on your life rather than being curious about the life of your ex. One of the biggest mistakes people make after break up is asking mutual friends about their ex. This show you as a desperate person looking to match up the relationship even when you do not want to.
You should not spend your time and energy thinking about your ex when you do not have any control of their life anymore. Let them do whatever pleases them, and focus on your life instead.
Even if you want your ex back in your life, give them the silent treatment for sometime, they will automatically try to contact you if they were at fault at the time of break up.